Sunday, October 10, 2010

DOES CANCER HURT::::AND WILL I SURVIVE ?

When you or someone close is diagnosed with cancer, you may want to know everything about the disease. But perhaps you do not know what questions to ask – or feel that you should know the answers already.
Alison Boyd, the Macmillan Cancer Information Nurse Specialist at the London Clinic Cancer Centre, who provides information and support to patients diagnosed with cancer and their families, answers some commonly asked questions.


His toughest role: Michael Douglas, pictured with wife Catherine Zeta-Jones is being given chemotherapy and radiation treatment for Stage Four throat cancer
His toughest role: Michael Douglas, pictured with wife Catherine Zeta-Jones is being given chemotherapy and radiation treatment for Stage Four throat cancer

How many different types of cancer are there?
 
About 200, but some are rarer than others. Does cancer hurt? This depends on where you have it. With the majority of cancers, people do not experience pain as a first symptom.
 
The cancer cells themselves are not painful, but when they make a tumour that presses somewhere, for example on the spine, or blocks an airway or passage, this can be painful.

If the disease is advanced and has spread to the bones, then pain may be a symptom.

How does it kill you?

Cancer at an early stage does not kill you: it is only when advanced that it can become fatal. Not all cancers kill and some have survival rates of more than 90 per cent.
The way cancer causes death varies according to what type it is. Some cancers kill you by interfering with your body’s vital functions.
Cancer can take over an organ, such as the lung, causing it to collapse and preventing you from breathing properly. Or it may cause a blockage in the digestive system that stops your body from absorbing vital nutrients.
If it reaches the liver or bones, it upsets the body’s delicate chemical balance, leading to unconsciousness and eventually death. Cancer may also make you immobile.
This causes you to develop infections such as pneumonia, which the body is too weak to fight.
However, the pain-control options available mean that those with cancer should not die in pain. 

 

How many stages of cancer are there?

Most types have four stages. Generally speaking your prognosis is better the earlier the cancer is diagnosed.
  • Stage One – localised cancer, it is contained where it started. .
  • Stage Two – usually means that the tumour is larger than in Stage One, but can also mean that there is evidence of cancer in nearby lymph nodes. This would indicate that cancer cells have spread and therefore already entered the bloodstream, increasing the risk of cancer developing elsewhere in the body. .
  • Stage Three – the cancer is larger than in Stages One or Two. There are cancer cells in the lymph nodes in the surrounding area. It may have started to invade surrounding tissues or organs. . 
  • Stage Four – also called secondary or metastatic cancer. It has spread and there is evidence of it in other organs in the body. You can live with Stage Four cancer but it is often a case of managing rather than curing the disease.
Is it possible to tell how long someone has had cancer?

Patients often want to know the answer to this. With skin cancer, once the lesion has been removed you can measure its depth to get an idea how long it has been growing.
With other cancers it can be hard to tell. Cancer takes many years to develop before symptoms appear.


If I have had one cancer, am I at greater risk of getting another type?

Your risk increases slightly, because of the treatment for the initial cancer. If you have received radiotherapy, especially for breast, testicular and skin cancer, it damages the healthy cells as well as killing the cancer cells, and these damaged cells may then mutate to become cancerous. But this is only a slight risk.

Do age and fitness affect your chances of surviving?

It is generally seen as positive to be young and fit as you will probably have a better immune system and be strong enough to withstand the treatment.
The fitter you are, the better equipped you will be to cope. Cancer is not more aggressive in young people and there is no pattern for who gets which grade and at what age.


Do race and skin colour have any effect on your risk?
 
Generally not, though some cancers are more common in people of colour. For example, prostate cancer-has a higher incidence in Afro-Caribbean men (it is not known why) and myeloma (blood cancer) is more common in the black population.
 
Which cancers are hereditary?


Ovarian, bowel, breast and uterine cancer have identified susceptibility genes: scientists have discovered the gene responsible for each of those cancers.
It does not mean you are going to get that cancer if you have the gene, but it does put you at an increased risk.
You can, if you choose, be tested to see if the gene has been passed on.
Testicular, pancreatic and prostate may also run in families but have no identified gene, so cannot be tested for.


What is the difference between primary and secondary cancer?

Primary cancer is where the cancer started to grow. Secondary cancer is when some cancer cells have broken away from the primary tumour, travelled in the bloodstream (or lymph system) to another site in the body and started to grow.
Secondary cancer is considered to be advanced disease and becomes more difficult to treat. You cannot usually eradicate the disease once it is in the bloodstream because it will just grow somewhere else.
But doctors can manage the disease with treatment that may slow its growth or alleviate its symptoms.


Why can’t cancer be cured by organ transplants?

Transplanted organs are not used to treat cancer in organs because if the cells have already travelled to other parts of body, even if you remove the organ with the primary cancer, the cancer cells will continue to grow on the new organ, or somewhere else.
Also, you would need anti-rejection medication for the transplant to work. This would dampen the immune system that may be fighting the cancer naturally.


Can you catch cancer from someone else?

No. Cancer is caused by cell changes in a person’s body – it is an internal process; you cannot catch cells so you cannot catch cancer.

What happens if a GP suspects you have cancer?
They will refer you to a specialist for further tests according to National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence guidelines.
Most cancers are treated by surgery first, so you would initially see a surgeon, then a medical oncologist to decide if further follow-up therapy is required after surgery, such as chemotherapy, hormone therapy and biological therapy.
If necessary, you may also be referred to a clinical oncologist for radiotherapy.


Can diet and exercise help beat cancer?
 
A good, balanced diet means that you will be healthier before you start cancer treatment. Your immune system will be in better shape to fight infection and you may heal faster.
Exercise helps you feel better, gives you energy and also boosts morale. But patients should not push themselves. Keep doing what is normal for you, within the limits advised by your doctor.

I have been diagnosed with cancer. How do I tell my children?
There is no right or wrong way. Generally, the best policy is to be honest, but not harsh. It is OK to say: ‘We don’t know what’s going to happen.’
For younger children who do not understand what cancer is, we tend to talk in terms of bad cells and good cells.
 
Can I get a second opinion?
 
Yes, and most specialists are happy to do a second referral. Speak to your current specialist or GP and ask for a referral to another specialist.
If they are not happy, you can see someone privately or speak to a clinical nurse specialist or local cancer information support centre, such as a Macmillan Centre.


Will cancer affect my chances of conceiving?

It depends on what type of treatment is required. Some types of chemotherapy and radiotherapy can affect fertility. It is easy for men to bank sperm, but a much more complicated and longer process for women to freeze eggs or ovarian tissue.Discuss it with your specialist.


Why are some cancers inoperable?

If tumours are in an awkward position, too close to major blood vessels or organs, or if they are growing round the spine it can be too difficult to operate, or it might not be appropriate if the cancer is at an advanced stage, when the primary site is elsewhere.
Blood cancers or bone marrow cancers cannot be operated on. But other treatments such as chemotherapy, radiotherapy, hormone or biological therapies may be used.


Which types have the best survival rate?
 
Testicular and prostate in men and breast and uterine in women, because they can be removed early.

Friday, October 8, 2010

A SPECIAL DAY FOR A VERY SPECIAL ONCOLOGIST DOCTOR VICTOR




My favourite colour is pink...maybe it is just as well.....today is world CANCER day....thinking of my Oncologist VICTOR , I would like to send a very special thank-you to him . I think many times our Doctors do not realise how much we appreciate all they do for us, Cancer is a hard fight and the battle is long but with DOCTOR VICTOR by my side I know I have the best chance to beat this and if I do not, it will not be for all the care he has shown me.

Thank-you my friend.


The Pink for October campaign is about blog and website owners showing their support for breast cancer awareness by turning our sites pink for the month of October.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

CHEMOTHERAPY: TWO MORE SESSIONS TO GO

Yesterday,was cycle five, this is my second time for the return of my cancer.
I have a wonderful Oncologist and we discussed my latest Pet-Tac which was clear and went on to discuss my first Pet-Tac and both biopsy results before being diagnosed with cancer and we both reminded each other that all results were negative....rare but it does happen. Therefore for us the Pet-Tac is just a guide line it does not mean I am cancer free.

My cycle should have been six sessions but we have decided on a seventh just to be sure...after this I will have a scan to see if the liquid where my cancer lives (behind my bladder) has disappeared. If not , I guess there will be more treatment BUT thats for another day I do not want to think so far a head, one day at a time is about all I can manage.

I wore a new wig for the occasion , my brightest pink lipstick and smart clothes. I always face these sessions with the image I am not sick...and many told me how wonderful I looked yesterday. It helps, it helps a LOT.

When I enter the Oncologist ward everyone looks so sick, heads wrapped in scarves and with a yellow pallor, gaunt, tired....I of course without the 'image' look the same. BUT I am a fighter and I refuse to let cancer do this to me.

My husband, my carer, was brilliant yesterday, the needle was placed in an akward position in my hand, it was also uncomfortable. Once treatment begins the need to pass urine comes often and I was unable to undo my trousers,so along he came to assist me on no less than nine occassions. Moments like these I remind myself how lucky I am and how that man will go to the end of the earth for me without a moments thought.

Last night the pain began in my bones my entire body on fire, I cried and sobbed as the waves of shivers to hot flashes wracked my very soul. My husband,  held me all night and stroked my bald head with one or two tufts that refuse to give up the fight. He says they make me look cute.

This morning I took morphine for the pain and slept most of the day, my husband had to work and has returned exhausted, I apologized for keeping him awake all last night and said tonight I will sleep in another room. 'You will not, I want you next to me, so I may hold you'...' me too' I said.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

FRIDAY IS WORLD CANCER DAY

                                 Friday is world cancer day
I'd appreciate it if you will forward this request


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 A small request.. Just one line.
 Dear God, I pray for a cure for cancer. Amen 




All you are asked to do is keep this circulating, even if it's only to one more person.
 In memory of anyone you know who has been struck down by cancer or is still living with it.
 
 A Candle Loses Nothing by Lighting Another Candle.

ONE SHARED BATTLE AND THREE BEST FRIENDS

When Kate Jones learned she had breast cancer at 37, she turned to long-time pals Linda and Sarah for support during her often radical treatment. Then they, too, were diagnosed before they reached 40… To mark Breast Cancer Awareness Month, they explain how their friendship and understanding helped each to take her own approach to tackling the disease
Kate Jones feature
Sarah, Kate and Linda today
On her wedding day ten years ago, Kate Jones, now 40, had two close friends to wish her all the luck in the world. Sarah Wheeler was like a sister to her; the girls had grown up together in the same Hampshire village. Linda Iravani was a work colleague of Kate’s who had moved to the village and got to know Sarah. As they entered their 30s, all three were newly married and it wasn’t long before they had seven children among them. Then, one after another, they got breast cancer.
Kate Jones
Kate was first. She has a vivid memory of a summer day in 2007, just before she was diagnosed, going riding with her two small daughters, Annabel and Tilly, now seven and eight, and thinking that her life, at 37, couldn’t get any better. Her husband Rob, now 43, was running his own graphic design agency and Kate’s image consultancy business was thriving. It was the August bank holiday weekend, a few weeks later, when she found the pea-sized lump in her armpit; she confided in Sarah, but refused to let it spoil their holiday barbecue. However, a mammogram and biopsy two weeks later revealed a 10mm lump in her breast, so small she couldn’t feel it: ‘What I’d found in my armpit was a swollen lymph gland, not the cancer. And then it all started…’
Initially, Kate underwent a lumpectomy, followed by four months of chemotherapy, through which she carried on her business more or less as normal. When her long black hair started falling out, she cut it short to make it look better. ‘My little girls said, “Mummy, you’re not pretty any more. You’re not a princess.”’ But that wasn’t what broke Kate’s heart. ‘I couldn’t have cared less about losing my hair. It’s amazing how un-vain you become. It was the thought of them maybe growing up without a mummy.’
In every group of friends there’s a glamorous one, and in this instance it’s Kate, who makes a living helping women make the most of their looks, and who will be taking to the catwalk this week with other breast cancer survivors – including one man – for Breast Cancer Care’s annual fashion show in London. From day one of her chemo treatment, Kate attacked cancer with pink lipstick, and when her hair loss got worse, she found herself a really good wig. ‘I wasn’t going to be a cancer victim. I had to keep working – I’d built my business over five years and I wasn’t going to let it go,’ she says. ‘Women come to me wanting to know how to look good. And there I was with a wig, pencilled-on eyebrows – and they never knew. I put on my brightest clothes and my brightest lipstick – and I walked the talk that I’d been giving to others.’
What she needed from her friends was for them to stop feeling sorry for her, to phone her with gossip instead of asking, ‘How are you?’ Although by now they had all moved away from the village where their friendship began (Kate and Rob now live in Whitchurch, Hampshire; Linda has moved to Surrey with her teacher husband; and Sarah, an army wife, is in Germany), the others were there whenever Kate needed to talk. ‘I wanted them to be totally, utterly and completely normal,’ Kate says. ‘Not feel sorry for me. Not dwell on it. I didn’t want them to talk about cancer.’
Kate Jones feature
Brownies Sarah (front right) and Kate (rear right), 1980

Kate Jones feature
Linda and Sarah (from left) with Kate (second right) at Kate's wedding, 2000
What she couldn’t have known was that she was setting a standard for her two friends to follow. Barely a year after Kate had found her lump, Linda called with the news that she too had breast cancer. ‘I just couldn’t believe it,’ says Kate. ‘It seemed unreal. I thought, statistically, I was the unlucky one.’ (In fact, the risk of breast cancer for women under 40 in the UK is one in 200: around 1,400 cases in Kate and Linda’s age group are diagnosed each year.) ‘I remember texting Linda, to say “don’t be scared”. And she said, “I’m going to follow your example – and put on my make-up!” I’m sure that knowing exactly how I’d wanted people to be with me made me a much better friend and supporter to Linda.’
Then, just as Linda was recovering from five months of chemotherapy last year, Sarah in turn became aware of an irregularity in her breast. But the likelihood that she too had cancer seemed so unthinkable that she initially delayed checking it out. Ironically, she was having a consultation for a breast augmentation to restore her confidence after feeding four children when her cosmetic surgeon drew her attention to what he thought was probably only a cyst. It wasn’t. ‘The three of us met up one day last summer,’ Kate recalls. ‘My hair was growing back. Linda’s treatment had only just finished and she was wearing a wig. And three weeks later, Sarah was diagnosed. That was the biggest shock of all – for our mothers, too, as they’re friends.’
Although they all had aggressive cancers, Sarah’s experience has been most traumatic. She contracted pneumonia when her immune system was weakened by chemotherapy and was on life support for what Kate describes as ‘the longest ten days of our lives’.
‘I wasn’t going to be a cancer victim. I put on my brightest clothes and lipstick and walked the talk I’d given to others’
Our photo shoot is the first time they have all been together since that meeting last summer. Sarah has recovered well and there is lots of exclaiming about how well everyone looks, and how glamorous, as she and Linda compare how their hair is growing back. For the moment, they are all free of cancer. But for all their
closeness and mutual support, they stress that everybody’s experience is different.
Kate’s treatment has been most radical, by choice. She resolved early on to have a mastectomy in the affected breast; then, having tested positive for a breast cancer gene that affects only five to ten per cent of women with the disease, had a second, preventive mastectomy last year as well as reconstruction surgery. She also had her ovaries removed to minimise the risk of secondary cancer. ‘I knew for my own peace of mind that I couldn’t have kept my breasts’, she explains. ‘You realise that your family and friends don’t care if you’ve got them or not. I could still wear a bikini. But I did feel sorry for my poor husband.’ Only days after our photo shoot, Kate had one last operation to reconstruct her nipples: ‘I should look normal for the first time in three years.’
Kate was also the only one of the three friends who wanted all the statistics, every scrap of information. ‘I needed to understand it. I needed to know that I was being realistic expecting to be OK.’ At times, she admits, it seemed as if there was no getting away from breast cancer: she lived through it all again with her friends, just as she was recovering and longed to put it behind her.
‘That’s why I want to do this fashion show,’ she says. ‘If I can’t get away from breast cancer, I want to help women under 40 see that you don’t have to be scared. You can still look glamorous and feminine and sexy. You can still be a mummy.  You can still look gorgeous after, and even during cancer. So though it’s awful that it has been all three of us, we’ve helped each other enormously. Three friends who have had cancer are all OK. And today we’re all laughing about the fact that we’re special friends.’

'It was great having Kate one step ahead of me. if she could do it, so could I’

Linda Iravani
Linda Iravani, 41, from Surbiton, Surrey, gave up her career in publishing after her breast cancer was diagnosed in September 2008. After a recuperative ‘gap year’ she is now a supply teacher. She is married to Tony, 42, also a teacher, and has a daughter, Emilia, six.
When I found my lump – not even pea-sized, it was petit pois-sized – I was quick to act because I knew that if it had happened to Kate it could happen to me. Her text saying, ‘Don’t worry, darling, it will be OK,’ was the most calming message I could have. I threw up for 24 hours, from shock. But the next day, the sun was shining and I thought, ‘I can go two ways – sink into depression, thinking “Why me?” or be positive.’
In hospital I cocooned myself; I didn’t want to get to know anyone at the same stage as myself. I already had people to share my fears with, and it was great having Kate one step ahead of me. If she could do it, so could I. We’d discuss our fears about our children. Unlike Kate, I soon became bald as a coot – the cold-cap treatment to prevent hair loss during chemo was excruciating, and it was obvious that my hair was falling out anyway, so I gave it up. My mum was worried, because as a child I’d even cry over a haircut, but as soon as I put on my wash-and-go wig, I loved it.
So by June last year, I was in a very happy place. There’s a photo of the three of us: my treatment was over, Kate was recovering from a mastectomy, and Sarah, although she’d found a lump, didn’t mention it so we were in blissful ignorance. I was on holiday in Antibes when Kate texted a few weeks later saying Sarah had been diagnosed, and it was a real shock –unbearable that it had happened to all three of us, especially as none of us smoked, or were overweight, and Sarah had breast-fed four children, which is supposed to reduce your risk. It was as though the three of us were in an exclusive club – only, unfortunately, it’s not that exclusive. I felt I could help Sarah because it was still fresh in my mind. This time last year, I was still so tired that I couldn’t have walked a mile. That’s why I’m amazed at how well Sarah is: she did a fundraising marathon power walk this summer.
We’ve all approached it differently. Kate was obsessed with statistics, Sarah didn’t want to know and I’m somewhere in the middle, which is unusual because I’m generally someone who does want to know. I didn’t go online for information: you only scare yourself. When you look at the three of us, we defy statistics anyway.

‘You can’t alter your diagnosis, but you can alter how you deal with it’

Sarah Wheeler
Sarah Wheeler, 39, is married to Paddy, 43, an officer in the Army Air Corps, and they have four children, Sebastian, eight, Benedict, six, Alexander, four, and Flora, two. She was diagnosed with breast cancer in June 2009, a year after they’d been posted to Mönchengladbach in Germany.
Looking back, it seems ridiculous, given that I knew about Kate and Linda, but I thought my lump was insignificant and I didn’t want to make a fuss. The surgeon who did my breast augmentation thought it was a cyst and told me to get it checked out; but as I’d just finished breast-feeding, to me it felt like a blocked milk duct. It didn’t cross my mind that it could happen to me too. I’d come back to England for half-term, and we all had lunch, but I didn’t say anything. I didn’t want them getting wound up over nothing.
When I got the diagnosis, back home in Germany, I wanted Kate to hear in person, so
my mother told Kate’s mother, who went to tell her. We had a cry together over the phone and then she said, ‘You’re going to be able to do this. Put a smile on your face and we’ll beat this together.’ And you do. All I could think of was that I had four small children who needed a mummy: if anything happens to me, who’ll take them for haircuts, who’ll know whose pants are whose? Life needed to carry on with a mummy who was as bubbly and bright as possible. Of course, you have days when you don’t feel very bubbly. I remember telling another friend that I was fed up being a smiley person with cancer.
In Germany everything happens very quickly: from diagnosis to starting chemotherapy within a week. I got a text from Kate before my first chemo saying: ‘Hope you’ve got your lipstick!’ You can’t alter your diagnosis but you can certainly alter how you deal with it.
I lost all my hair and the children were fine about it, except that they wouldn’t let me go
past the end of our road without wearing a hat! I remember nothing about having pneumonia: I was on life support for ten days, while Paddy was looking at the possibility of bringing up the children on his own. When I came round, I was told that 48 families had been cooking for them on a rota; at 5pm, military wives of all nationalities would turn up with food. So I had amazing support even though I was so far away.
One thing Linda, Kate and I have had to be careful of is not to get our knickers in a twist comparing treatments, what drugs we’re on, or chemotherapy sessions. Kate chose to have very radical treatment, for instance. What’s great is that at each stage we’ve been able to support each other. We couldn’t be any closer.

For more information about Breast Cancer Care’s fashion show on Wednesday at Grosvenor House Hotel, London, and for information and support for women under 45 who have been diagnosed with breast cancer, visit breastcancercare.org.uk

Friday, October 1, 2010

UNDERSTANDING TYPES OF BREAST CANCER

It may help to understand some of the key words used to describe breast cancer. I thought breast cancer was just that BUT there are many types of breast cancer, I have placed them together so we may understand more and in so doing understand our bodies and what is happening to us.

Carcinoma

This is a term used to describe a cancer that begins in the lining layer (epithelial cells) of organs such as the breast. Nearly all breast cancers are carcinomas (either ductal carcinomas or lobular carcinomas).

Adenocarcinoma:

An adenocarcinoma is a type of carcinoma that starts in glandular tissue (tissue that makes and secretes a substance). The ducts and lobules of the breast are glandular tissue (they make breast milk in women), so cancers starting in these areas are sometimes called adenocarcinomas.

Carcinoma in situ:

This term is used for the early stage of cancer, when it is confined to the layer of cells where it began. In breast cancer, in situ means that the abnormal cells remain confined to ducts (ductal carcinoma in situ, or DCIS) or lobules (lobular carcinoma in situ, or LCIS). They have not invaded into deeper tissues in the breast or spread to other organs in the body, and are sometimes referred to as non-invasive breast cancers.
Invasive (infiltrating) carcinoma:

An invasive cancer is one that has already grown beyond the layer of cells where it started (as opposed to carcinoma in situ). Most breast cancers are invasive carcinomas, either invasive ductal carcinoma or invasive lobular carcinoma.

Types of breast cancer in men

Ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS)

In DCIS (also known as intraductal carcinoma), cancer cells form in the breast ducts but do not grow through the walls of the ducts into the fatty tissue of the breast or spread outside the breast. DCIS accounts for about 1 in 10 cases of breast cancer in men. It is almost always curable with surgery.

Infiltrating (or invasive) ductal carcinoma (IDC)

This type of breast cancer breaks through the wall of the duct and grows through the fatty tissue of the breast. At this point, it can spread (metastasize) to other parts of the body. At least 8 out of 10 male breast cancers are IDCs (alone or mixed with other types of invasive or in situ breast cancer). Because the male breast is much smaller than the female breast, all male breast cancers start relatively close to the nipple, so they are more likely to spread to the nipple. This is different from Paget disease as described below.

Infiltrating (or invasive) lobular carcinoma (ILC)

This type of breast cancer starts in the breast lobules (collections of cells that, in women, produce breast milk) and grows into the fatty tissue of the breast. ILC is very rare in men, accounting for only about 2% of male breast cancers. This is because men do not usually have much lobular tissue.

Lobular carcinoma in situ (LCIS)

In LCIS, abnormal cells form in the lobules, but they do not grow into the fatty tissue of the breast or spread outside the breast. Although LCIS is sometimes classified as a type of non-invasive breast cancer, most breast specialists think it is a risk factor for developing breast cancer rather than a true non-invasive cancer. As with invasive lobular carcinoma, LCIS is very rare in men.

Paget disease of the nipple

This type of breast cancer starts in the breast ducts and spreads to the nipple. It may also spread to the areola (the dark circle around the nipple). The skin of the nipple usually appears crusted, scaly, and red, with areas of itching, oozing, burning, or bleeding. The fingertips can be used to detect a possible lump within the breast.

Paget disease may be associated with DCIS or with infiltrating ductal carcinoma. It accounts for about 1% of female breast cancers and a higher percentage of male breast cancers.